What do you do?

[skidMark]

Heres a question, what do you do when your flatmates accusme you of stealing thier cellphone while they are away in dubai, He is saying he thinks i didn't because a dodgy flatmate just moved out, i recall a conversation that i heard muffled through a wall one night involving said dodgy flatmate. him on the phone, ( i ignored most of his conversations, walls are just thin but overheard them all just blocked em out...)

anyways... one nighti heard him saying oh yeah it's a v3....yeah..... um yep... etc etc... on the phone, thought nothing of it he was on his phone for 4 hours a night.

so flatmate gets back last night...dodgy flatmate due to move out today.... flatmate comes to my room and says, my cellphone has been stolen from my room while i have been away....it's a v3 etc etc...

"Ok well wasnt me, didn't see anybody go in there, except me to borrow dvd's" (which he said i was welcome to while he was away)

so anyways i wake up n go for a leak at about 3am, as im drifting back to sleep i thought hmmm he did say something about v3 once in one of his phone convos to somebody.

Ahh well i thought, probably not relevant but will talk to head flatty about it tommorrow (not owner of phone or dodgy one and see what he wants to do)

wake up in morning, dodgy flatmate has moved out overnight.

Back to tauranga...thanks cameron take your alcohol and drug problem and a phone with you and leave me with the abuse.

So anyways.... thats background on that one, so far tonight i have been told they are 95% sure it was the other guy and not me.
I have had a knife pulled on me.

I have been accused repeatedly of taking this phone.

I have also being accused of it being my fault for not bringing up my hunch at 3am, and waking them to tell them. (when i was half asleep having only woken to take a leak)

anyways enough about that trivial shit.

i am left with a decision.

Let this blow over, accept the accusations and move on.

accept the job offer in auckland, and plod along the same way i have my entire life living in auckland.

or the thing i have been contemplating for 3 days.

Move down to greta valley, in the middle of nowhere, 80k's from christchurch. where i have a job (paying same amount as auckland job) and a flat waiting for me.

50k's to nearest supermarket. basically the middle of nowhere. ( i think i would really miss the convenience of everything being at my finger tips in auckland)

I have no girl friend currently so nothing to tie me down in that regard.

just ditching my friends and family thats holding me back really, auckland is the only place i have ever lived, and after 3 days i just can't decide so here i am.

The fact of the job in down there was the origional hook to the idea, but the more i think about it the more i wonder, do i need this change. Do i need to go screw it take the risk and change my life?

Please serious opinions only, as this does seriously impact my future.

Mark.

[Usarka]

One of you is on the crack.

Either way you need to make the decision yourself.

I know what I would do, but I have a feeling you are coming to the conclusion by yourself.

The big thing you need to do is to make a decision, not just drift into whatever comes along.

Best of luck.

[Hitcher]

A rut is a coffin with the ends kicked out. You can't change your life unless you make changes.

[skidMark]

One of you is on the crack.

Either way you need to make the decision yourself.

I know what I would do, but I have a feeling you are coming to the conclusion by yourself.

The big thing you need to do is to make a decision, not just drift into whatever comes along.

Best of luck.

I think down south would be a good change i really do, its just leaving my friends family, everything i have ever known for the complete unknown it's just a bit scary to be honest.

[tommorth]

go live with people who arent fucked up ,lazy, messy ,drug addicts untrustworthy or generaly loosers it just makes life depressing .
I dont think you have to move to other end of the country to do this
its fkn cold down there any way im a soft and dont like the cold

[Usarka]

I think down south would be a good change i really do, its just leaving my friends family, everything i have ever known for the complete unknown it's just a bit scary to be honest.

My thinking has always been this:

Project forward 10 years, will you regret not doing it?

If so, you can always come back, and friends and family will still be here.

[Mom]

Heres a question... Do i need to go screw it take the risk and change my life?

Please serious opinions only, as this does seriously impact my future.

Mark.

Apologies for the broken quote thing, but I took what I could to reply to. People here are going to roast you for posting yet another woe is me thread. Take the roasting mate. Re-read my PM, perhaps even take my advice

[skidMark]

Apologies for the broken quote thing, but I took what I could to reply to. People here are going to roast you for posting yet another woe is me thread. Take the roasting mate. Re-read my PM, perhaps even take my advice

I'm always ready to recieve a roasting, i created my online persona for myself, mostly intentionally.

[Cajun]

Mark.

Ya flatmate sound like retard pulling knife on people over a stupid cellphone, if got money yo go dubai and back, a v3 cellphone is pityful compared to that.


both have up and down sides.

But change of life style, bit fo hard work, in the country might be good for you. Yes away from friends and family, but you make new friends, and true friends will keep in contact, and visit, others are just wannabes.

Like you said you ploding along in auckland, you are mind already sounds 75% made up maybe

[Boob Johnson]

Sound like great flatmates!

I'd move south to the job, a change is as good as a holiday as they say & at your stage of life a change of scenery would certainly be to your advantage. If nothing else an adventure! Think of it as an adventure & that it is! Your at the right age to do this sort of thing, later in life won't be as easy to do so go for it, you have absolutely nothing to lose & everything to gain!

[skidMark]

Hmm very valid points cajun, can everybody please vote, would help my poor swollen head lol

[Usarka]

Hmm very valid points cajun, can everybody please vote, would help my poor swollen head lol

i'm not voting because you need to make a decision on what you know is best, not what everyone else thinks.

[Katman]

What was it you said about karma Mark?

Oh, that's right - "Karma's a bitch".

Yeah, it's a real bitch sitting back and reading about someone else's Karma.

[skidMark]

i'm not voting because you need to make a decision on what you know is best, not what everyone else thinks.

Yeah, i tried that for the last couple of days lol.

Vote i say! lol

What was it you said about karma Mark?

Piss off.

[Tank]

i'm not voting because you need to make a decision on what you know is best, not what everyone else thinks.

I'm not voting either - this is not the place to ask. Talk it over with your good friends and family.

If you do decide to go do (as someone said) think of it as an adventure - it starts it with a positive approach