Why men cheat.

[imdying]

you've seen Once Were Warriors, surely?

That's the one with the lippy brown bitch who got what was coming to her, right?

I doubt you'd ever be charged with such a crime unless there was evidence of physical abuse, of course. But if your wife is bruised and battered and a medical examination shows signs of forced entry... you're a rapist, sunshine, and you goin-a jail.

Shocking... should have been no need to force entry if she'd fulfilled her marriage contract as she promised

[Jantar]

...Jantar, I think you are being too simplistic and one-eyed in your assertions.

Of course I am. That is the major difference between men and women. Most men focus on a single task at any one time, and exclude any extreneous data. Women are better at multi tasking and tend to link things together that men consider irrellevent.

Maybe this is why women can seperate sex from love, but men usually don't. So an act that a woman may call "cheating" to a man is just "supplementing".

I'd love to see a similar discussion on "Why women cheat"

[Trudes]

Trudes,

Men cheat because there is "some one" to cheat with, "why does everyone blame the MAN"

Just watch the monkeys at the zoo, we are primates, it's what we do!

Keep your eye's on the ball (no pun intended) and head him off at the pass! (Ooh, another one) Cheers, John.

Thanks John. Essentially what I got from the article was that it's not entirely the man's fault that he cheats, he's looking for something he's not getting at home, so if you want your man to be faithful, then be nice to him. That's why I made Kendog's sandwiches for him last night and told him he was a stud muffin this morning.

[jrandom]

Husband allowing himself to become fat and unattractive.

Unattractive to the wife, yes... and if some other woman with different tastes happens to find him sexy, I guess that's just bad luck for the missus, innit?

My point is (and I do have one), is that women don't just decide they don't want sex anymore. Sex drive isn't just a switch you can turn on and off at will - it is up to both parties to find a way to make it work.

Looking after oneself goes both ways. I think it's rather rare to find an active woman who takes care of herself who lacks libido. The women who aren't interested in sex tend to be the pale, flabby, kitchen-and-couch-dwelling sorts.

Exactly the same applies to men, of course. Sex drive and physical health are inextricably linked.

[firefighter]

jesus fuck me! Men cheat, because they like to fuck, and they want variety, not the same old crackers........simple as that, make up any bullshit you want, that's the truth.

And hell, who would'nt want to have a go at someone half their age who's going to let them have a go?! Us males take what we can get....and what's more flattering than knowing you can still get some?

You see, for women, open your legs and you will get laid, men however, different story, so if the opportunity comes along, well you just gotta take it!

[Trudes]

Hey, Trudes, I wasn't getting at you. It's the article that I think is misleading. I admit in my post I find it hard to imagine that a routine develops that allows you to neglect your spouse to the degree described.

Hey no worries luv, didn't think you were.

[imdying]

That's why I made Kendog's sandwiches for him last night and told him he was a stud muffin this morning.

High five!

[MsKABC]

Of course I am. That is the major difference between men and women. Most men focus on a single task at any one time, and exclude any extreneous data. Women are better at multi tasking and tend to link things together that men consider irrellevent.

OK, fair point. *tilts head to one side and purses lips thoughtfully*

Thanks John. Essentially what I got from the article was that it's not entirely the man's fault that he cheats, he's looking for something he's not getting at home, so if you want your man to be faithful, then be nice to him. That's why I made Kendog's sandwiches for him last night and told him he was a stud muffin this morning.

Or looking at it another way: we should go out there and give a thoroughly good kicking to those skanky women who would have our men, given half an opportunity.

[Okey Dokey]

I almost get the feeling that men and women in this thread are talking past one another and illustrating "why men cheat"!!!

[Trudes]

And hell, who would'nt want to have a go at someone half their age who's going to let them have a go?! Us males take what we can get....and what's more flattering than knowing you can still get some?

Exactly, ego driven. "I've still got it, she wants me, doesn't matter that she's as ugly as a sack of arseholes, I'm so hot"

[jrandom]

it's not entirely the man's fault that he cheats, he's looking for something he's not getting at home

I would just like to take this moment, folks, to thank all the sluts out there who are happy to fuck other women's partners.

Ladies (and I use that term extremely loosely), our prostates are eternally grateful. Keep up the good work.

we should go out there and give a thoroughly good kicking to those skanky women who would have our men, given half an opportunity.

Yes, that's another valid perspective.

[firefighter]

Men cheat because they are here for one reason. Procreation. Women cheat because they're sluts.

Can't be more simple than this.

Hahahaha, it reminds me of how women say "how come a man can sleep around with a lot of women and be a legend yet a women doing the same thing is a slut?"

My answer.....because a women if she wants to can get it whenever she wants, if a women goes out to get laid, she damn well can, whereas a man is lucky if he gets laid, in fact he's got to work at it (for the most part)......hence a loose woman being a slut and a man that can get a lot is a legend lol.......

It's good being a guy......we can pee standing up too!

[skidMark]

It's because he's just not that into you.

As much joking as u intend it with...

Women are bitchy, unappreciative, and many manyyy other things.

We get sick of them quickly, so get a fresh one.

Its kind of like owning a harley...

[MsKABC]

Unattractive to the wife, yes... and if some other woman with different tastes happens to find him sexy, I guess that's just bad luck for the missus, innit?

Well I guess there's no accounting for taste then huh?

Looking after oneself goes both ways. I think it's rather rare to find an active woman who takes care of herself who lacks libido. The women who aren't interested in sex tend to be the pale, flabby, kitchen-and-couch-dwelling sorts.

It sounds like you have done some fairly extensive research there....

[Okey Dokey]

And of course, men never hide the fact that they are married from hot young things!