Why men cheat.

[The Stranger:Me]

Sometimes a guy gets number one prime high quality beef at home .
Yet occasionally he hankers for a tunafish sandwich.

That's all well and good Frosty, it's when you get a hankering for sausage I'll be saying good bye.

[avgas]

Its simple isnt it.
Men are poor losers.
This is why they cheat.

So if you man is cheating on you..........he is obviously unhappy with the hand he was dealt.......aka you have let yourself go.

See its all the womens fault.
I'm glad we had this chat - lets start a group to discuss mens needs.

[avgas]

I don't know enough cheaters to form an opinion so: are cheaters generally repeat offenders or do they only do it as a one-off to satisfy a need?

There's a saying along the lines of "the way the relationship is started is how the relationship will end."

I think your confusing cheaters with nudists.
Also if all relationships end how they start i better start drinking again

[avgas]

you got to know when to hold em
know when to fold em
know when to walk away
know when to run
you got to count your money
when your sitting at the table........

sex ed 101 when it comes to cheating

[jrandom]

you got to count your money
when your sitting at the table...

Uh.

For what it's worth, the lyrics are "You never count your money when you're sitting at the table / there'll be time enough for counting when the dealing's done."

[Grahameeboy]

I can honestly say that I have never cheated...I just don't see the point...

[Jantar]

I don't know enough cheaters to form an opinion so: are cheaters generally repeat offenders or do they only do it as a one-off to satisfy a need?

There's a saying along the lines of "the way the relationship is started is how the relationship will end."

That question requires a definition of "who is a cheater?" I have asked before, so I'll ask again: If sex means so little, and isn't a major sign of love, then why would women call it "cheating" when a man goes elsewher for it?

During my first marriage I had two affairs. One after about 6 years, and a second after around ten yeras. Each affair lasted about a year, and I made sure my wife knew about them and the reasons for them. In both cases it was because not only wasn't I getting good sex at home, but other aspects of the marriage were also breaking down. Matters did improve once I convinced my wife to go to a marriage guidence counsellor, but after 17 years of marriage it was finally over. Did those affairs constitute "cheating"


I have now been with my present wife for almost 14 years and felt no need to look elsewhere.

[FROSTY:Me]

That's all well and good Frosty, it's when you get a hankering for sausage I'll be saying good bye.

No dude im not one of the mormen few nor have I developed a taste for sausage. ohh and for the record my lovely wife supplies me all the steak,tunafish or for that matter if I wanted chicken breast I could ever ask for.

[Grahameeboy]

That question requires a definition of "who is a cheater?" I have asked before, so I'll ask again: If sex means so little, and isn't a major sign of love, then why would women call it "cheating" when a man goes elsewher for it?

During my first marriage I had two affairs. One after about 6 years, and a second after around ten yeras. Each affair lasted about a year, and I made sure my wife knew about them and the reasons for them. In both cases it was because not only wasn't I getting good sex at home, but other aspects of the marriage were also breaking down. Matters did improve once I convinced my wife to go to a marriage guidence counsellor, but after 17 years of marriage it was finally over. Did those affairs constitute "cheating"


I have now been with my present wife for almost 14 years and felt no need to look elsewhere.

Sorry but that is cheating regardless of the fact you told your Wife at the time...if you are not happy and you cannot sort it out then you leave...

Sex is a 2 way thing...

[Grahameeboy]

No dude im not one of the mormen few nor have I developed a taste for sausage. ohh and for the record my lovely wife supplies me all the steak,tunafish or for that matter if I wanted chicken breast I could ever ask for.

Tuna in Brine or Spring Water

[jrandom]

Sorry but that is cheating regardless of the fact you told your Wife at the time...

Did you miss my earlier post? I pasted a dictionary definition:

cheat
v. tr.
1. To deceive by trickery; swindle: cheated customers by overcharging them for purchases.
2. To deprive by trickery; defraud: cheated them of their land.
3. To mislead; fool: illusions that cheat the eye.
4. To elude; escape: cheat death.

How did Jantar do any of the above? He neither deceived nor deprived by trickery, misled, fooled, eluded or escaped.

Simply shagging someone else doesn't satisfy the definition of 'cheating' if the above conditions aren't satisfied.

(And please try and respond to this with something more than a one-line grunt. If you disagree, explain and argue the point.)

[SixPackBack]

Talk about over analysing............men are hard wired to spread their seed far and wide, modern society has successfully placed a veneer of respectability over love and marriage but given the right set of circumstances most of us would be hangin' out of a hot bitch worrying about the consequences later.

[SixPackBack]

I can honestly say that I have never cheated...I just don't see the point...

Bet you have cheated on Jesus.

Heretic.

[Grahameeboy]

Did you miss my earlier post? I pasted a dictionary definition:

cheat
v. tr.
1. To deceive by trickery; swindle: cheated customers by overcharging them for purchases.
2. To deprive by trickery; defraud: cheated them of their land.
3. To mislead; fool: illusions that cheat the eye.
4. To elude; escape: cheat death.

How did Jantar do any of the above? He neither deceived nor deprived by trickery, misled, fooled, eluded or escaped.

Simply shagging someone else doesn't satisfy the definition of 'cheating' if the above conditions aren't satisfied.

(And please try and respond to this with something more than a one-line grunt. If you disagree, explain and argue the point.)

Life is not a dictionary...okay lets go for "Unfaithful"...it all amounts to the same thing and telling the partner does not make it better...

There you go that's 2 lines and doesn't matter how much you go into long detail the basics remain the same

4 lines...I am on a role..

You are married...you have sex with someone else...that is wrong...

[Grahameeboy]

Bet you have cheated on Jesus.

Heretic.

But I never had sex with Jesus...plus he has forgiven me for my sins...

I admit I waiver...but I have never gone with someone else so I have not cheated...