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" Life is not a rehearsal, it's as happy or miserable as you want to make it"
I didn't think!!! I experimented!!!
I didn't think!!! I experimented!!!
I didn't choose the roastlife, the roastlife chose me
[QUOTE=mashman;1130635617]You could just tell me as I'm off out to help a man with his wood.
I was on a schedule earlier too Masho.
Anyway, the Law you ask. No, if the Law gets involved it's already a fail.
The mechanism is about making kids accountable for their actions.
In a nutshell, from what I've read, heard etc by making kids accountable for their actions it builds their self control which in turn increases self-esteem. The more they control their lives, the better they feel about themselves.
Also, knowing good from bad developes conscience which is vital in stopping them going really bad.
Well you should have ditched it and explained yourself.
True.
Have you met many kids? You tell them certain things are bad/wrong etc... and they see some other kid testing that boundary, then they too are going to test that boundary innit. We're talking about a lack of life experience and that's something you can't teach, you can educate it, but you can't teach it. So whilst I agree on a certain level, we're dealing with kids. I don't think locking them away is a good idea either, because they don't get to have the experience. To be honest I don't know many kids that have self-esteem issues, but fail to see how knowing right from wrong and judging what they do could have that much to do with it. I'm not saying it has nothing to do with it, but I'd say it's more the interaction they have with adults that goes a larger way towards their self-esteem. I'm sick to the back teeth of hearing adults sigh and mumble under their breath, or post on an internet forum, that some 13 year old kid needs to grow up. Praps they should try to relate instead of expecting the kid to do all of the work.
Hopefully you'll never get to meet them in an official capacity.
I didn't think!!! I experimented!!!
PZ-Im looking at this with "old guy" and "dad" eyes. y lil baby gal is 13 years old.Fortunately for me she pretty much looks it.
But Ive seen a few of her freinds when they are off to the movies. They could pass for 17 with no qualms.
Yea its an age old story-Lots of 16-17 year old girls passing themselves off as 18 to get into clubs.Same story just younger age.
To see a life newly created.To watch it grow and prosper. Isn't that the greatest gift a human being can be given?
Sorry Im not following the story. If true then they are in deep dooo doo. If its normal teenage boy BS and bravado they will be regretting their lies about now.
OR WILL THEY--as the situation stands theres no real fallout.
"suspended from school" big deal- its exam time now so most kids that age are on study leave
To see a life newly created.To watch it grow and prosper. Isn't that the greatest gift a human being can be given?
[QUOTE=mashman;1130635744]Well you should have ditched it and explained yourself.
True.
Have you met many kids? You tell them certain things are bad/wrong etc... and they see some other kid testing that boundary, then they too are going to test that boundary innit. We're talking about a lack of life experience and that's something you can't teach, you can educate it, but you can't teach it. So whilst I agree on a certain level, we're dealing with kids. I don't think locking them away is a good idea either, because they don't get to have the experience. To be honest I don't know many kids that have self-esteem issues, but fail to see how knowing right from wrong and judging what they do could have that much to do with it. I'm not saying it has nothing to do with it, but I'd say it's more the interaction they have with adults that goes a larger way towards their self-esteem. I'm sick to the back teeth of hearing adults sigh and mumble under their breath, or post on an internet forum, that some 13 year old kid needs to grow up. Praps they should try to relate instead of expecting the kid to do all of the work.
My apologies for having a life apart from KB...
Yep, I've met a few kids even did some relief lecturing for a while. What an eye opener that was and yes there were self esteem issues aplenty even with kids from supposedly well to do supportive backgrounds.
As far as the interaction with adults goes, the first point of contact is of course with parents so we're back to that being the critical factor. Role models play a part as well and these may well not be parents for one reason or another.
Frosty, these young fucks, bragged about plying 13y/old girls alcohol or what have you, and having group sex with them.
If you are under the age of consent, then no matter if you are a boy or a girl, the person you have sex with, potentially is up for a charge of Rape.
Underage sex is RAPE! The law defines it.
You are defining the problem that we have in todays society!
In your eyes, a young 16-17 year old boy, can have sex with an underage girl 13-14 years of age? It is just underage sex? Good luck with that when your little girl hits 13!
Reading your post again..." YOU get it and support that these girls are 13-15 years old so shouldn't be having sex."
However, You seem to be condoning the behaviour of these wankers, because they are 16-17 year olds. "The boys concerned equally are 16-17 year olds. so we aren't talking dirty old men here we are talking the same peer group."
Why "muddy the water with age"!?
ARE YOU SERIOUS?!
Thinking back to school days - A lot of girls wanted older boyfriends- girls mature quicker than boys at that age so mentally older guys were more on their level. Add the kudos of "my boyfriend drives" or can buy cigarettes and booze. Not saying all girls but a lot of them did. A 15 year old girl having a boyfriend of 17 is hardly worthy of criminal charges is it?
I love the smell of twin V16's in the morning..
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